BREASTFEED

deciding to be a breastfeeding mom is a huge commitment. The time you put into your baby means changing your life and dedicating your life style to your precious baby. Food choices improve & exercise is great! Breastfeeding only is also a sacrifice when it comes to your social life and judgment. You have a baby anyways so you shouldn’t be going to the clubs- but you may get invited and have to say NO, or you may STOP GETTING INVITED and that hurts too, but just know the time with your baby YOU’LL NEVER GET BACK. and what are you missing anyways? gossip? fun that fades? Your actually safe at home with your baby.
Your baby needs you!
Date night- from experience, you may have to make dinner plans at 11pm when baby goes to sleep just so you can sneak out for an hour with your boo. Or you may have to cock block your date and bring your baby.
when you bring you baby- everywhere you go (grocery store, library (bc you have an older kid to drop off places), food places, church) YOU WILL HAVE HUNGRY, CRYING BABY AT 1 POINT, maybe more than once. & you WILL HAVE TO WHIP YOUR TITTY OUT! I have forgotten covers to hide my boob- but who cares!!!! baby’s gotta eat. You may even have to pull the car over and park to breastfeed. After time, you’ll not even care if anyone see’s. I don’t even care to cover up my breast because FREE THE NIPPLE AS MILEY CYRUS WOULD SAY 🙂

they are going to stare and judge anyways. the older your baby gets the MORE PEOPLE WILL JUDGE (EVEN FAMILY MEMBERS).
people will talk bad, make negative comments like “is your baby gunna be 18 still on the tit?” no dumb ass he’s 1 and that’s what God created the titty for. YOU PROB SUCKED ON YOUR MAMAS TITTY TOO WHEN YOU WERE A BABY, MAYBE EVEN A TODDLER. THEY DIDNT HAVE FORMULA BACK THEN GOOF.

so the point is, people are stupid, dumb and ignorant. But I was too at 1 point,. When I was a first time mom I was dumb yet I thought I knew it all. so we don’t know it all, we will mess up-that’s called parenthood. Don’t be too hard on yourself, forgive your self and move on because YOUR BABY ALREADY HAS FORGIVEN, FORGOT AND LOVES YOU UNCONDITOINALLY.

all in all- show them boobies!
love jess